Everyone has experienced a breakup, whether it be decided or settled. If not, probably not experienced the whole process of developing relationships. Feel the pain when it was decided to be part of the maturation of self.
Unfortunately many people reluctant to pass through this process they are trying hard to avoid the pain in various ways, eg by shopping, traveling abroad, eat as much, finding a new boyfriend or even adopt children. Though this way is not necessarily succeed in making you avoid from heartache. It might even be more painful.
You want to know what makes more painful of breakup
1. Too quickly got a new boyfriend
When ex-boyfriend is treating you so badly, like the easy to label yourself, or never pay attention to what you want, separated from it impressed was the best way. When you break up you intend to immediately seek a new lover to get over it. You managed to find a good man, enjoying every date that you are doing. But why yes you sleepless nights later and more often thought of ex? This is not part of your plan
Apparently the cause is due to bring a new figure in your life it will emphasize the fact that the ex had just gone out of your life.
The fact that you force yourself to forget about it with a date with another man. If you managed to find a perfect man, may not be a problem. But you will more often have multiple sexual partners because many men do you find it still memilliki deficiency. And all this you can do so only fill your heart or mind. When you begin to realize with all of your search which will be felt only emptiness. Because, you actually have not forgotten the ex. The only people who need you are dating is your own self, to recognize how your feelings are..
2. Trying to do the last conversation
If you who broke it off, maybe you do not need a last conversation about your relationship. But if you are decided, the only closure you need is the fact that he no longer wants with you. Or, he can not love you. The point. No more terror by sms, email or phone to ask what is wrong with your relationship. If you are not doing wrong, maybe you are not destined with him ..
3. Preserve evidence or memories with him/her
When it was decided not accepted, women often try to find out the real reason to spy on the status of the ex on facebook or twitter. You try to figure out what he is doing now or how he spends his time. You want to make sure that the ex is still there. Up here you are safe, before it eventually will experience tremendous disappointment changed his profile with "in relationship".
All, you need to know the breakup is painful, and you feel the pain of the emotion. Treat yourself to daydream, to cry or not sleep all night. Just like when you're dying to exercise to lose weight, you should feel the pain to become more powerful. Believe me the pain will slowly fade and eventually disappear (Betty confidential / kompasfemale).
